Cycle II Schedule 2008-2009

November 2008 – January 2009

 

Our Next OPEN HOUSE is TUESDAY, January 27, 2009, 10 AM - 12:30 PM.

Come down to the Center to register and meet other members!

 

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DISCUSSION GROUPS

 

MOMS

This 4-week discussion group will cover the many aspects of being a mom. Topics include: changing feelings, changing relationships with family, friends and spouse, feelings about staying home and/or

returning to work, and the effects of media and society on mothering. Other topics can be introduced by participants as well. Minimum: 5

Day/Time: Mondays, 9:30-11:00 am

Dates: 11/17, 11/24, 12/1, 12/8

Facilitated By: Bethany E. & Kelly D.

Fee: $36 includes 1 child in childcare

$10 each additional child in childcare

 

Intro to Peer Facilitator Training

Facilitator Training uses a group format that models the peer group experience and provides an opportunity for personal growth and development.  The training curriculum is designed to enhance communication and presentation skills; improve confidence level in public speaking; provide special techniques to help group members feel heard and have their feelings validated; offer techniques for listening more effectively and speaking more clearly and accurately; and prepare you to facilitate Mothers’ Center groups from standard discussion outlines. This group is open to any Mothers’ Center member who has an interest in learning more about peer group facilitation. Minimum: 5.

*Current facilitator business will be discussed the first 5-30 minutes of combined Intro/PFT sessions.

Day/Time: Tuesdays; 12:30-2:00 pm

Dates: 11/18, 11/25, 12/2, 12/9, 12/16, 1/6, 1/13,

1/20

Facilitated By: Danielle C. & Dina I.

Fee: $50 includes 1 child in childcare

$10 each additional child

 

PFT

This is the ongoing training support group for both the women who facilitate support/discussion groups at the MCS and those who have completed Intro to PFT to become facilitators. Topics involve brainstorming and problem solving, and are determined

by the facilitators’ needs. We will be a combined group with the Intro to PFT trainees.

Day/Time: Tuesdays; 12:30-2:00 pm

Dates: 12/2, 1/6

Facilitated by: Linda Vanella, RCSW

Fee: None for Cycle 2 facilitators

$25 for all other facilitators

 

Mothering A Child With Special Needs

This is a monthly group for Moms of children with high or special needs, such as ASD, ADHD, allergies, or developmental disabilities. Is your child easily overwhelmed, distracted, frustrated, sensitive?

This free group is open to all women to help with the challenges and to share information. You do not need to be a member to attend. To register call 689-2827. Friends, spouses, children and snacks are welcome! *Childcare is not provided but children can attend under mom’s supervision.

Date/Time: Wednesday, November 12; 7:30-9:00 pm

Location: Emma S. Clark Library

Date/Time: Thursday, December 4; 10:00-11:30 am

Location: Mothers’ Center at 5 Caroline Ave, in Setauket Presbyterian Church

Date/Time: Wednesday, December 17; 7:30-9:00 pm

Location: Emma S. Clark Library

Date/Time: Thursday, January 8; 10:00-11:30 am

Location: Mothers’ Center at 5 Caroline Ave, in Setauket Presbyterian Church

Date/Time: Wednesday, January 21; 7:30-9:00 pm

Location: Emma S. Clark Library

Led by: Pam Block & Rebecca Moore

Fee: FREE!

 

 

LECTURES & WORKSHOPS

 

Mindful Parenting

As parents, we may often find ourselves rushing through a flurry of moments as we try to accomplish all the work involved in parenting. Helping children become aware of their feelings and able to express themselves are two very important skills that easily get overlooked. This workshop on Mindful Parenting will help us explore how we approach parenting and how to help our children develop the ability to feel comfortable within themselves, have the skills to communicate and be proactive in resolving conflicts and problems. Minimum: 5.

Led by: Sirka Louca, LCSW-R

Date: Thursday, December 18

Time: 10:00-11:30 am

Fee: $12 includes 1 child in childcare

$5 each additional child in childcare

 

Holiday Rescue

Do you long for a more meaningful holiday that won’t leave you in debt? Are you afraid that you’ll be paying off your credit card bills well into the new year? Join member, Dina Isola of ATI Investment Consulting Inc.  (www.atiinvestment.com) and contributing editor at http://www.happyhousewivesclub.com/budgetbootcamp/ and find out how to make a holiday budget that will enable you to enjoy the season without the financial hangover. Learn what to include in your budget, and discover creative ways to reduce your spending while having a festive holiday. Topics include: setting up a budget; paring down on gift giving; decorating on the cheap; homemade personalized gifts that are priceless; and finding bargains to stretch your dollars. Make 2008 the year your holidays are more about quality than quantity.

Led by: Dina Isola

Date: Thursday, November 20

Time: 9:30-11:00 am

Fee: $12 includes 1 child in childcare

$5 each additional child in childcare

 

Finding Financial Strength in the New Year

The economy is rocky, the cost of living is higher, and we’re all feeling the squeeze. How you position yourself and the steps you take to manage your finances and household budget can mean the difference between falling behind, running in place, or getting ahead. Which will you be? Join member, Dina Isola of ATI Investment Consulting Inc. (www.atiinvestment.com) and contributing editor at http://www.happyhousewivesclub.com/budgetbootcamp/ as she discusses ways to tighten up your household spending and how to redirect these savings to work for you. Topics include: running more efficient household; saving on general living expenses, such as groceries and utilities; investing wisely; and making your investment dollars go farther. Take this opportunity to set yourself up for success in 2009.

Led by: Dina Isola

Date: Thursday, January 15

Time: 9:30-11:00 am

Fee: $12 includes 1 child in childcare

$5 each additional child in childcare

 

Coping with the Holidays

The holiday season is already upon us. It is “the season of stress” for many people. This is an opportunity for mothers to have a place to discuss these stressors and what hinders their ability to enjoy the same season that their children cherish. Let’s identify what complicates the season and discuss ways to rejuvenate and replenish ourselves for a more peaceful holiday season. Minimum: 5.

Led by: Carissa Blasius Millett, LCSW

Date: Wednesday, December 10

Time: 1:30-2:30pm

Fee: $9 includes mother and 1 child in childcare

$5 each additional child in childcare

 

Massage Circle

Back by popular demand, here's an opportunity to relax before the holidays. Come together to work away those tight knots on your shoulders. Learn basic massage and acupressure techniques for everyday health and wellness. This is a hands-on workshop with a brief introduction. We will spend most of the time listening to meditative music in candle lighting while we breathe deeply and apply the massage and acupressure techniques on each other. Minimum: 5

Led by: Jennifer Hoang, L.Ac. (Acupuncture Tradition)

Date: Monday, December 15

Time: 9:30-11:00 am

Fee: $12 includes 1 child in childcare

 

DAYTIME SOCIAL EVENTS

 

Welcome Brunch and Book Swap

Come out and welcome our new Mothers’ Center members and their children. And while we eat we can have a book swap discussion. If you’d like to clean out your bookshelf, now’s the time. Any type of book welcome, but there is a 5-book limit.

Date: Wednesday, November 19

Time: 11:30-1:00

Fee: Bring a dish to share or a donation to the Coat/Blanket/Toiletry Drive

 

My Gym

“My Gym” has created an extraordinary program devised to help children physically, cognitively and emotionally. Kids will have fun as they develop strength, balance, coordination, fine and gross motor skills and flexibility.  And the  best part? The “My Gym” in Stony Brook is offering us a free trial class! Bring your child to their state-of-the-art facility for an hour of music, dance, gymnastics and fun. Minimum: 6.

Date: Tuesday, November 25

Time :3:15-4:15 pm

Location: 1320 Stony Brook Road in the Coventry

Commons Shopping Center, Stony Brook

Fee: FREE!

 

Dance & Creative Movement Class

Scientific studies have proven that dance awakens and activates many of our mental capacities. Dance in early childhood will actually prepare and develop the brain for "higher learning" (focus, concentration, problem-solving,  speech, reading, writing & more). In addition, dance will help your child develop confidence and independence. Come join in a fun-filled class of dance and creative movement. With the use of props, music and lots of imaginative play, your child will have a positive, unforgettable experience. Min./Max. 6/12.

Ages 2 and up.

Date: Monday, Nov. 17, Time: 3:00-3:45 pm

Location: Reflections Dance Academy

1310-10 Middle Country Road in Selden

Fee: FREE!

 

Volunteer Day

Let’s get together and make our center a better place! Activities may include help with mailings, updating the bulletin board, wiping tables and cleaning out the toy closets. Won’t you come and do your part to improve OUR center? Childcare may be provided if we get volunteers for childcare.

Date: Monday, January 12

Time: 9:30-11:00 am

Fee: Make a donation to our Coat/Blanket/Toiletry Drive

 

Holiday Sampler

Did you think all fun winter holidays were in December? Come learn about the January holidays of Scandinavian Saint Lucia and Chinese New Year!  Stories, food, fun, crafts, games and celebration!

Saint Lucia

Date: Wednesday, January 14

Time: 10:00-11:00 am

Led by: Barbara B.

Fee: $10/child

Chinese New Year

Date: Friday, January 23

Time: 1:00-2:00 pm

Led by: Jennifer H.

Fee: $ 10/child

 

Snow Celebration Party with Miss Andrea

Get ready for an indoor snow party! We'll be making snowmen and playing in the "snow".  So, don't forget your gloves, scarves and hats! Minimum: 5

Ages: 5 and under

Led by: Miss Andrea

Date: Wednesday, January 7

Time: 10:00-10:50 am

Cost: $10 per child

 

CRAFTS

 

Trim-A-Tree Craft

Join your MC friends and their children in making special ornaments that we will use to decorate the tree in Stony Brook on the following Sunday, December 7th.

Date: Wednesday, December 3

Time: 1:00 pm

Fee: Make a donation to our Coat/Blanket/Toiletry drive

 

Gingerbread Baby

Hey kids, lets decorate gingerbread babies! We’ll read the story “The Gingerbread Baby” by Jan Brett then decorate our own babies. Children as young as 2 can participate with help from Mom. Bring your own container to bring your “babies” home….if they make it that far! We’ll supply the rest.

Date: Thursday, December 11

Time: 1:00-2:00 pm

Led by: Kelly D.

Fee: $10 per child

 

MOMMY & ME

 

Toddler Time: Walking to 2 Years

Enjoy special time with your child, connect with other mothers, and see your child’s delight while playing with other children as well as Mom. Fun includes songs, music, story time, puppets, bubbles, balls, parachute, and free play. Children should be walking to participate. Min/Max: 5/8

Day: Fridays

Time: 9:30-10:20 am

Dates: 11/ 21, 12/ 5, 12, 19, 1/9, 16, 23

Led by: Miss Andrea

Fees: Members $63, additional child $31

Non members $82, additional child $42

 

Moms and Tots: Ages 2-4

Here’s a class just for you and your “big” kid.  There will be FUN, FUN, FUN with free play, songs, stories, finger plays, parachute, and a simple craft. Min/Max: 5/8

Day: Fridays

Time: 10:30-11:20 am

Dates: 11/ 21, 12/ 5, 12, 19, 1/9, 16, 23

Led by: Miss Andrea

Fees: Members $63, additional child $31

Non members $82, additional child $42

 

 

NIGHTTIME SOCIAL EVENT

 

Cookie Exchange

Take some time out for fun during this season, and join new and old friends for a “Cookie Exchange”. Let’s meet at Bethany’s house for some wine and appetizers while we exchange cookies and bring home a variety of cookies for your family! You bring your favorite holiday cookie in bags with six cookies each to distribute to everyone who participates. (If eight people attend the “exchange” you bring eight bags with six cookies in each bag! You would then go home with eight different kinds of cookies!)

Date: Wednesday, December 10

Time: 7:00 pm

Location: Home of Bethany E.

Fee: FREE, plus cookies to share

 

Holiday Shopping and Potluck Extravaganza

Get out, relax, and take care of some holiday shopping all at once. Join us for a social evening at the gracious home of member Terry Carnovale. Bring a potluck dish to share, browse a variety of vendors including Discovery Toys, and avoid the holiday rush.

Date: Thursday, November 20

Time: 7:00 pm

Location: Home of Teresa C.

Fee: Free, bring a potluck dish to share

 

MEETINGS

 

STEERING

All Mothers’ Center of Suffolk members are invited and encouraged to attend! This is your Mothers’ Center! The Steering Committee oversees all Mother’ Center activities, finances and policies. All are welcome; sign up for one or all of them! Please note: childcare will be provided for these daytime meetings.

 

Date: Thursday, December 4th

Time: 9:30-11:30 am

Location: Mothers’ Center

 

Date: Thursday, January 8th

Time: 9:30-11:30 am

Location: Mothers’ Center

 

Program planning, Fundraising, Publicity Meeting

All members welcome!

Date: Friday, December 12th

Time: 12 noon

Location: Mothers’ Center w/childcare!